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You only think you're sneaky!

cheating. one of the top reason couples break up. what are the levels of cheating? well shit i dont know, if i did, then id be a lot smarter. lol. once a cheater always a cheater? eh, im on the fence about that. im not perfect. ive made my mistakes, but honestly, if i hadnt of had the experiences that ive had then i dont think i would be the person that i am today. theres always a fine line with cheating. (or so its said) what is considered cheating? txting? emailing? talking? chatting? emotional cheating? physcial cheating? making promises? its all the same. its losing trust in someone that you thought you were safe with. its a violation of your trust, privacy and the life that you've created with your significant other. your first thought is to confront the person. blow up, accusation and assumptions. if youre smart and can hold your wits together, hold out. (easier said than done!) get all the info you can. catch them in the act. do all you can to make the cheater feel like shit. get as much as you can out of it do what you need to do to take care of yourself. and then when the time is right, balls to the wall! take them down!
I've listed a few links that have some helpful information:
The love Doctor! 
Emotional Affair

dont be a fool. be aware of your surroundings. cheater 101. watch of attitude and behavior changes. are they becoming emotionally distant? over protective of their devices, such as cell phones and computers, are they acting shady, suddenly going out more with the 'buddies' or 'girls night'....are they really just going to lunch with a friend?... just a few tips from what ive been handed before. Always ALWAYS be aware of your surroundings.


thank goodness i dont have to worry about this with my better half. i trust him. i know theres plenty of temptation out there but i know in my deepest thoughts and in my heart i have nothing to fear. confident you say? YES! its out there. trust. if you dont have trust then you dont have a relationship. dont kid yourself into thinking that you can fix someone or fix yourself. its a gamble. life is a high risk game. the only thing you can do it play the cards that youve dealt.


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