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2025

Another year has come and gone, and here I am—mid-January already.

Christmas was spent with family, as always. The holidays tend to be chaotic, rushing back and forth across town to visit everyone.

2024 was truly a memorable year for me! So many milestones to reflect on:

  • I turned 40.
  • I participated in two amateur horse shows.
  • I earned my motorcycle endorsement. (I conquered the Twisted Sisters route on my motorcycle!)
  • My brother bought a new house (so proud of him—just waiting for a new sister-in-law now!).
  • I celebrated my 10-year wedding anniversary. 
  • And I hit my 2-year mark with my company.

It’s been a year of highs and some lows, but I think the highs outweighed the lows—or maybe I just blocked the lows out entirely (I do have a knack for that, haha!).

While my memory isn’t quite where I wish it was, I’ve been making an effort to shake things up and challenge myself with new activities. It feels good to break out of the routine and keep my mind sharp.

I’ve started gaming recently! While it’s not exactly an "active" activity, it definitely keeps my brain engaged—coordinating with my hands, multitasking, and staying focused. I wouldn’t say I’m addicted, but I don’t mind spending long periods playing. I balance it out by mixing in chores and errands: play a game, tidy up the house, play another game, run some errands. It’s been a fun way to unwind while still keeping things productive!

I'm determined to read more books this year, and I’m off to a great start—I’ve already finished two since the beginning of January! There’s something so calming about holding a physical book, sitting quietly, and letting my mind take over. I love hearing the words in my head, visualizing the story, and feeling like I’m a part of it as I read. 

My husband and I are diving into more activities together this year. He came home with pickleball paddles, and, well, here we are. I’ve been avoiding pickleball like the plague because, let’s be honest, everyone is doing it, and I didn’t want to jump on that bandwagon—but I guess it was inevitable!

We’ve also joined a pool league (again). I’m just a backup player, and honestly, I’m not very good. They needed someone with a lower skill level to balance the team, so here I am. Apparently, I’m ranked as a 1—not entirely sure how the ranking system works, but that’s where I stand!

I’m blessed to have a fairly healthy family, and for the most part, there’s not much drama (at least on my side). I’m incredibly grateful for the time I get to spend with them and the memories we create together—it’s something I truly cherish.

I’m excited to keep building my skills with the horses and take on new challenges. There are some changes coming in this area, but I’m holding off on sharing until I have a clearer idea of my plans. Here’s hoping I’m making the right decisions!

As I reflect on the start of this year and all the growth, changes, and new experiences ahead, I’m filled with a mix of excitement and gratitude. Here’s to embracing the journey, staying open to opportunities, and making the most of every moment. Let’s see what 2025 has in store!

ALSO, it’s been fucking cold, and I’m constantly freezing! Ugh

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