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Sneaky!

It's really irritating when you count on someone to be somewhere and then at the last minute they decide to act stupid and not show up. i understand that things happen, you forget, you over book yourself, you wanna go a date with a boy or someone else is having a bigger party, but to bail out of it by not being truthful is what makes me angry. all i've ever asked of anyone is to just be honest with me, just communicate with me! thats all ive ever asked! i know it can be hard to have to be truthful, its embarrassing and i understand not wanting to hurt someone's feelings, but its better to tell the truth rather than beating around the bush or just straight up lying about it. i can relate because back in the day (i was pretty darn selfish and didnt care), i would committee myself to everyone's plans and then at the last minute finally make up my mind and go in another direction. i dont do that anymore (too much) because people need to know whats going on and its better just to say YES or NO....dont try to keep ur options open dont try to see if something else better comes along. if you can, you can...if you cant then you cant. its no big deal! theres always a next time.



back to better things! charli's 'SURPRISE' birthday dinner celebration went great! everyone who needed to be there, was there! we had a blast! dinner was good and the show was hilarious! im really glad everything turned out very well. 30 years down the road we will reveal the truth, but for now it didn't hurt anyone and we will later look back at this and laugh (at least i hope!) dont worry i didnt hurt anyone, but it was kind of funny. (and charli if youre reading this, then you know what im talking about) i highly recommend Texas Star Dinner Theater. who done it? in Grapevine, TX. now, for the guys, im sure its not high on ur list of things to do, but ur girl will appreciate it (if she likes this kind of thing) and it will give you good points for the night! i was proud of everyone for making the after party especially fun, since none of us ever seem to stay out late anymore these days (guess it comes with age?!) it was a successful (slightly tipsy) turn out with good laughs! 

We moved the party to Lazy Bones after dinner
I told charli she was going to HAVE To take picutes!
ha! Whats wrong with this picutre?
Erin and Justin
Dan and Ashley
Charli and Ashley




For the last few Fridays in a row, Alicia and I have been going to Sneaky Pete's for Happy Hour. Its so great getting to see Alicia and this is the first time a long time that we have been available (time wise) at the same time, so we've been making the most of it. Sneaky Pete's is right on the water and we both love being on the lake and for some reason being near water is just relaxing. Last Friday when we went to Sneaky's, it was packed! i mean ridiculously packed for a Friday. Did anyone go to work that day? It didn't seem like it because everyone that we were talking to had been there since 11am. Some talk radio station was there. Im guessing it was a guy thing because the ratio of men to women was hilarious. it was a sausage feast. Im not complaining or anything but i was just stating the obvious. hello eye candy!



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